There are certain issues that no matter how the minor/small is the case, I can't get it out of my head. I am so easy with direct blaming and although I might not answer in words, but I will definitly include it in the actions. But indirect blaming, I have a low tolarance! There are also small issues, that the reason behind them is really large issues for me.

Well that was in general, but still there are things that no matter how hard I try, they don't go out of my mind. Well, there aren't any reaction since I have to make sure if the problem is inside me, say my pride is the cause, in which case I prefer to work it out by blaming/correting myself, or maybe there is something else that bothers me, say I am over-sensetive in some senses, or the whole thing is not fair or .... But still in the latter case I have to decide that is it worth to open the subject, or go after an answer for the question or not. The whole process needs a lot of cool down period to avoid any unthoughtfull/regreting action.

Anyways, one good way is to sleep and see if the thoughts are gone away in the morning or no ;)

P.S. I really rarely do anything that I regret afterward and it is a most serious when it happens. But I do make a lot of mistakes which I don't regret since at the time that I am making those mistakes I lack the knowledge to judge the right thing. Say for example I say something and turns out to be a bad thing to say, but I didn't thought that the other person is sensetive to the matter even for one second. It is not something to regret, it is something to learn from. There is a big difference for me between these.